
Etiquette & Further Information
BOOKING & AVAILABILITY
I ask for a fully completed booking form along with screening, ideally with at least 24 hours notice. Once this has been received and checked, I will request a deposit to secure the time in my diary. After this housekeeping is taken care of, I will suggest that we can arrange a time for a brief phone call before our date to hear each others’ voices and allay any first date nerves (yes, I get them too!)
In regards to same day dates. I am a spontaneous soul, and I completely understand that sometimes it’s hard to plan ahead. However, my own commitments mean that I am usually spoken for (in one way or another) at short notice. I choose to focus on quality over quantity, so my diary is often booked in advance.
Having said that, please feel free to inquire - especially if you have already screened with me - but the more notice you can give me, the more likely it is we can meet.
DEPOSITS & CANCELLATIONS
I require a booking deposit to secure all dates and offer many flexible discreet ways to do so including but not limited to bank transfer, cash app, crypto and even good old cash in the mail. A deposit not only reassures me of your commitment, but it gives you the reassurance that I have committed, too. It goes to reserve my time and make sure that any expenses are covered in case you can't make it. I ask for 30% deposit for local London dates and 50% deposit (plus all travel expenses) for tour, fly me to you and travel dates.
Deposits are non - refundable if you cannot make our date, however I understand that life doesn’t always fully cooperate with our plans and where sufficient notice is given I do allowing for one off rescheduling using same deposit. Cancellations for local dates with less than 2 days notice or tour/travel/FMTY dates with less than 3 days notice forfeit deposit and require full payment as cancellation fee payable. With the sufficient notice this fee will be held as credit and can be used for rescheduling a date booked within 6 months. In the rare event I have to cancel our date I will refund your booking deposit and any booking pre payments including expenses in full and offer a token of good will in addition to this. As standard I often utilise deals to get the best fares for travel dates, and thus all travel expenses are non refundable once booked. If you’d prefer I booked flexible travel to allow for rescheduling please let me know when arranging so I can quote appropriately. By booking with me you are confirming that you have read these terms and are happy with them all.
SCREENING & PRIVACY
Without exception, I require all first-time lovers to be screened before scheduling a date. I offer numerous easy ways to screen with me as it is important for me to verify that you are a safe and respectful person to spend time with but also that we are compatible. I care deeply about connection and this comes best for me when I am comfortable in my company.
Privacy is very important to me and I can assure you in respect to your privacy, all information conveyed to me remains strictly confidential and is deleted once screening is completed. I do not employ the services of any booking assistants and handle all screening and administration myself.
BEFORE & DURING DATES
I appreciate good communication in a lead up to our date. Vulgar or otherwise displeasing communication will lead to me respectfully declining a date with you. I’m a chatty gal and look forward to conversing with you during our date. I do respectfully ask that communications prior to and between dates be kept to a professional level. I do not have an assistant and manage all my own admin so unfortunately I’m unable to engage in numerous long email - much preferring to catch up face to face.
I believe punctuality is one of the simplest ways to show respect. I will always endeavour to be on time to a date and would ask you to do the same. If by chance you are running late I do offer 10 minutes grace but please keep me updated to ensure we are able to spend our planned time together.
You will always find me impeccably groomed and I ask the same of you. If visiting me you are welcome to freshen up in my bathroom, where I have a large supply of luxury toiletries and fluffy towels. If I am visiting you please be freshly showered for my arrival.
I ask that my fee is sorted within the first five minutes of our meeting, ideally in an unsealed envelope.
EXTENDED & TRAVEL DATES
Kink, extended, travel and fly me to you dates are quoted on a bespoke basis dependent on your location and desires for our date. I prefer to book my own itineraries and my quoted rate will include any transportation (buisness/first train or plane) and lodging expenses (4-5 star hotel) incurred which are non refundable once booked. I am happy for you to book this for multi day dates or overnights and please let me know if you would prefer to arrange using points etc.
As much as I may try, I am unable to survive on lust alone so please note that dates lasting longer than a couple of hours should include dining, be that in room or outside, with a minimum of 2 meals per 24 hour period. I simply adore snuggling but I do ask that you allow me a minimum of 6 uninterrupted hours of sleep to maintain functionality as I am at my best when suitably rested. For multi day dates it is important for me to have 2 hours per day private time so I can work out and do administration.
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